About Us
.png)
The Autism Independence Formula™ is a leading program for parents who want to equip their autistic child with skills to communicate confidently, improve comprehension, and gain greater independence—while reducing daily frustrations and creating a more harmonious daily life...
Founded by Eloise Zareian, a seasoned educator, parent, and expert in the Cognition-Communication Connection, The Autism Independence Formula is based on proven and evidence based strategies that have transformed the lives of countless children and their families. With over 15 years of experience working with children with unique learning profiles, Eloise has helped families create real, lasting change.
We support parents who are ready to move beyond trial-and-error methods, endless therapy sessions, and feeling stuck, unsure of what will work for their child. Instead, we provide a clearer, more effective and focused path to progress with tools that fit into your daily life, allowing you to nurture your child’s growth without feeling overwhelmed or lost in the process.
Who We Serve
We work exclusively with parents who:
⚡ Believe in their child’s ability to grow and learn through neuroplasticity and understand their role in developing new neural pathways for communication.
⚡ Seek out new strategies, programs, and research to better support their child’s unique needs.
⚡ Are resilient, loving and open to embracing new tools and techniques to create meaningful change.
⚡ Are determined and committed to seeing lasting progress and ready to put in the effort to achieve it.

Specifically, we work with parents who:
⚡ Feel Overwhelmed: By trial-and-error methods that haven’t delivered the results they’re hoping for, OR...
⚡ Want Better Results: Frustrated by limited progress from therapies like speech therapy, occupational therapy, or ABA, and seeking a more personalized and effective approach, AND...
⚡ Are Ready for Change: Looking for a proven, step-by-step system that integrates seamlessly into their family’s daily life.
We help these parents create an environment where communication grows, frustration decreases, and independence becomes achievable.
Our approach is rooted in proven systems, individualized coaching, and ongoing support to achieve real, measurable progress.
Our most successful families are those who embody the 10 Core Tenets of The Autism Independence Formula™—parents who are proactive, open, and committed to creating meaningful change for their child.
What We Believe
"We believe in every child’s potential—and every parent’s too."
⚡ You Are Your Child’s Greatest Advocate
We believe that every parent has incredible potential to transform their child’s life. Together, we’ll tap into your strengths to help your child grow, communicate, and thrive in their own unique way.
⚡ Building Connection Over Comparison
Your family’s journey is unique. We focus on creating meaningful connections with your child and others, fostering a sense of community that heals and strengthens, rather than measuring against others’ milestones.
⚡ Prove What Works for Your Child
We believe in finding strategies that truly work for your child before committing to them. Every child is different, and by tailoring approaches, we build confidence and progress that lasts.
⚡ Progress, Not Perfection
There’s no room for guilt or shame in your journey. We celebrate every step forward, no matter how small, and support you in focusing on growth over comparison or perfection.
⚡ Learning Through Challenges
Mistakes are part of the process. We believe that challenges provide opportunities to learn and adapt, making your journey—and your child’s progress—stronger over time.
⚡ Empowering Through Value
Your dedication to your child’s development is invaluable. By focusing on enriching their life and empowering their independence, you create a ripple effect of positive change.
⚡ Teaching by Connection
We believe that teaching is about more than passing information—it’s about forming a bond. By connecting with your child in a way they trust and understand, you help them grow with confidence.
⚡ Your Family’s Journey is Unique
Every family evolves in its own way, and so does your child. We believe in celebrating your unique path and helping you adapt as you and your child grow together.
⚡ Parenting with Purpose and Care
We believe in working smarter, not harder, and finding strategies that fit your family’s lifestyle. By focusing on what truly matters, you can make meaningful progress without burnout.
⚡ Creating a Better Future Together
We are here to help you build a world where your child feels understood, supported, and empowered. Together, we can create a future that values their unique gifts and enables them to live their fullest life.
What We Value

Steps Forward
We value taking consistent, meaningful steps forward. Progress, even if imperfect, leads to growth for both parents and children, building confidence and momentum.

Shared Commitment
We are dedicated to providing exceptional support and personalized strategies because every family’s success, is our success.

Driven To Grow
We value curiosity and adaptability, embracing every challenge as an opportunity to learn, grow, and unlock potential—for children, parents, and ourselves.



How It All Started
Hi, I'm Eloise Zareian
I’m the CEO and founder of The Autism Independence Formula.
I’m a trusted autism expert living a quiet life in the Canadian countryside. A former British Cup-winning athlete and proud Brit, I pour my heart into helping families thrive while cherishing every moment with my own.
Over the past fifteen years, I’ve helped thousands of families and their children achieve personal and individual goals around communication. As a sought-after consultant, I guided families through some of the toughest moments of their lives, helping them unlock immeasurable growth and connection.
But when I had my first child, my life was turned upside down. Suddenly, I was flung from being the expert into the role of the parent. My child had significant needs from birth and required—and will continue to require—thousands of hours of therapy.
This deeply personal journey of navigating my child’s challenges brought profound growth and life-changing realizations. I came to understand firsthand the heartache of watching your child struggle, the sleepless nights filled with “what if” questions, and the relentless drive to find answers. I also felt the loneliness that comes with walking a path so different from that of your friends and family.
It became clear that my child needed more than just a team of therapists—I needed to evolve as a parent to truly meet her needs. I knew her better than anyone else. I spent the most time with her, and she trusted me above all. But I also realized that for me to be the parent she needed, I had to learn, adapt, and grow.
So, I immersed myself in understanding her world, equipping myself with knowledge and strategies, and becoming the parent she could rely on completely. The results have been extraordinary—she is defying the odds set by doctors, therapists, and teachers, achieving milestones many thought impossible.
This experience planted a powerful seed within me. I realized that families like mine need more than just traditional therapy approaches. They need a system of support that is not only effective but sustainable, one that empowers parents to take an active role in their child’s progress.
That seed grew into The Autism Independence Formula, —a reimagined approach to supporting families and a program that shifts away from intensive 1:1 therapy toward empowering parents to become active partners in their child’s development. What started as an idea has grown into a strong and flourishing oak tree, providing strength, guidance, and hope for families worldwide.


